6 Ways Of Rebuilding Trust In Your Marriage After It's Been Broken

Make a decision to love by trying to let go of the past.The trust between a husband and wife is severely damaged by such deep betrayals. However ,this does not mean that the marriage isn't salvageable. Rebuilding trust in your marriage or relationship can be challenging when your spouse has done something significant to breach your trust.Trust in a marriage is about feeling safe with another person ,when something happens to cause one ,or both of you to feel unsafe with each other due to a one time event or series of events ,trust is eroded.It takes much time and effort to re-establish the sense of safety you need for a marriage to thrive.Below are few contributions and hep for rebuilding trust in your marriage.

1.Make a decision to love by trying to let go of the past.Stop obsessing about the situation which broke the trust between you and your spouse.

2.Be honest .You must be able to understand and state why the bad behavior occurred. You can't just say ''I don't know''. You must work to hard to know why it happened and why it will not happen again.

3.If you are the one in your marriage who lied,cheated, etc show that errant behaviors .That means no more secrets ,lies infidelity etc ,you must be completely transparent, open and forthcoming.

4.When this problem arises,all you need is time ,patience,honesty,commitment, love and forgiveness, don't treat problem with anger .At times problem of this matter will be solved by going on your kneel asking God to intervene in your case and him to restore peace ,trust and love back in your marriage where it have broken .

5.Be aware of your innermost feelings and share your feelings with one another ,you can comfort each other regardless of who the victim or perpetrator is.

6.Learn how to forget the past ,and focus on the future,when your spouse did something that you don't want ,don't recall the past ones he or she did wrong because remembering the past will make you not to trust again.

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Multichoice Stock Exchange Listing Heralds Naspers’ Pay TV Exit




Most consumers might not be familiar with the name Naspers but this is the company that owns MultiChoice which then owns DStv, GOtv and Supersport. Naspers also owns ShowMax which is an on-demand premium video streaming service that recently launched in Africa. Naspers’ video entertainment business has not been doing so well thanks to new age competition in the likes of Netflix and other PayTV services who have been cannibalising the market across Africa.

The company, Naspers Group, has announced that is plans to unbundle MultiChoice and list it on Johannesburg Stock Exchange (JSE). The unbundled entity will be known as MultiChoice group and will have; MultiChoice South Africa Holdings, MultiChoice Africa Holdings, MultiChoice Botswana, MultiChoice Namibia, NMS Insurance Services SA, the African division of ShowMax, Irdeto Holdings and Irdeto South Africa, under it.

If South African authorities approve, MultiChoice Group will be listed on JSE in the first half of 2019, rendering Naspers free of the ghost of pay tv. “This marks a significant step for the Naspers Group as it continues its evolution into a global consumer Internet company,” Naspers said in a statement to shareholders.

Naspers claims that unbundling MultiChoice will create value for its shareholders. However, with consumers shifting to on-demand services and spending less on digital TV, this leaves Naspers in trouble, seeing that DStv and Supersport have been facing tough competition in a once monopoly environment.

On top of this, their on-demand offering, ShowMax, is also facing competition from global entities. With this in mind, it is then not surprising to receive news that Naspers is planning to call it quits and walk away to greener pastures.

Bovi Surprises His Wife With A Mercedes Benz For Her 30th Birthday

Comedian Bovi's wife, Kris burst into tears as he surprised her with a Mercedes CLS 2017 for her 30th birthday last night.

Bovi and Kris have been married for 9 years and have 3 kids together.

Watch the surprise video below...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TEbzVlbTAT8

Cultist Who Killed Corper James Onuh In Bayelsa, Arrested. Photos


A suspected cult leader and armed robber, identified as Mr. Prince Owei, has been arrested by the police in Bayelsa State. Owei, an indigene of Ikebiri community of Southern Ijaw but resident in Ovom, Yenagoa, is said to be the suspected to be the killer of James Onuh, a member of National Youth Service Corps in Obele area of Yenagoa, the state capital, in 2016.

It was learnt that Owei is the second in command of a notorious cult group, the Icelanders.

The suspect’s victim (Onuh), who was a graduate of the Federal University of Agriculture, Markurdi, Benue State, was then attached to the Bayelsa State Ministry of Works and Infrastructure for his primary assignment.

Onuh was shot dead at Obele junction in Yenagoa while using the Automated Teller Machine in 2016.

It was also gathered that the suspect, who was arrested by the special tactical team of the State Police Command following an order of the State Commissioner of Police, Austin Iwar.

The Police Public Relations Officer, Bayelsa State Command, Asinim Butswat, confirmed the arrest of Owei.

The police spokesman, a Deputy Superintendent of Police, said the suspect was arrested at the Samson Siasia Sports Complex, Yenagoa, on his way to watch a football match.

He said the police recovered a locally-made revolver pistol, one live cartridge and packets of Rohypnol tablets from Owei.

Omoni Oboli Reacts As Tiwa Savage Looks Cute In New Photo

Mavin queen and Proud mum of one, Tiwa Savage looks absolutely stunning in this new photo she shared as she returned back to work in Lagos.

Actress Omoni Oboli who was astonished by her beauty, took to the comment section to ask her why is the songstress so gorgeous.

Chelsea summer signing already regrets leaving his former club



The West London last summer signing, Mateo Kovacic is already regretting his transfer move to Chelsea after clearing out of Real Madrid.

Mateo Kovacic completed a two year long season deal with Chelsea under Maurizio Sarri and he has started his career fairly well.

Meanwhile, the 2018/2019 Champions League and Europa League will get started this week and this seems to be the main reason for the players regret.



The report indicated that the Croatian international left Santiago Bernabue to seek first team football, and though he has gotten what he wanted with the west London club but other source claimed that Kovacic is already regretting the move as he thinks he should have stay put at the Santiago Bernabue to replace Luka Modric.

According to Don Balon, Kovacic thinks he should have stayed at Real Madrid to fight for his place as Luka Modric Is set to join Inter Milan during the January winter transfer window.

The midfielder must now need to have some patience with Chelsea to play part in the 2018/2019 Europa league season.

Also, Maurizio Sarri has claimed that he needs to rotate his team as more competition is set to start, while the team will start their 2018/2019 Europa league game on Thursday

Osun Election: Cadet Claiming To Be INEC Official Arrested (Photos)

A Cadet who claimed to be an INEC official was arrested at Ife South LG, Ward 2 Unit 4 during the tour of Commissioner of Police in charge of Ile-Ife Area Command Iliyasu Hammed to the Polling Unit.

He was not able to provide his ID card When he was asked to show his authentic Identity Card.

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