My husband sudden love for my anal

My husband sudden love for my anal

Hello Joro, Good evening. My husband has started something recently. He likes plugging his finger into my anal. I'm sleeping like this. Gbam his finger will enter. I'm cooking.

Gbam his finger will anal. During sex. Gbam his finger In my anal. He doesn't like washing it. Sometimes I will catch him smelling it. He started this in April this year.

I am tired. Joro what do you think made him start it ? I don't want him to make him unhappy. He seems happy now and hardly even goods out.



I pray God continues to give you wisdom and peace and may God bless the works of your Hands.
Dont intend to write much, just want to get different opinions cause I was beyond shocked with what happened at the office today.

I work with my dad and I am 24, I have been celibate and single since 2017 and I havent thought of sex or had any urge to sleep with anyone.

So some operatives from a bank we bank with came to the office today to see my MD but he wasnt on sit but he told me to interact with them till he comes.( A Guy and a Lady).
So I welcomed them and gave them sits and we started talking...the guy was the one mostly speaking with we were freely gisting and laughing and we were talking like we have known for a long time....he took my phone and said he wanted to see pictures and he watched some videos and he just quickly opened my call app and called his number so he could get mine....

So my boss came and they sat with him to discuss...the whole time Oga was staring at me and at first I didnt notice but anytime I look up I will catch him staring at me then he will look away, I dont know but whenever our eyes lock I get goosebumps all over straight to my pussy.

There was an instance my MD told them to conclude the discussions with me so they had to sit at my desk, I swear I felt his eyes on me but I pretended like I didnt a point he slid his phone at me and I looked at it he wrote"i love your lips" God joro I felt it in my pussy again..but I pretended it meant nothing...when I looked up he mouthed "you look so beautiful " but I just smiled and kept the conversation.

The ink in our printer got finished so we had to step out to quickly print and he insisted to be the one to go with me, at the cafe we sat close to each other and I turned my face to the road, but I felt goosebumps all over again when he touched my arm to get my attention then he whispered close to my ear "You are so beautiful and I really want to be close to you"

I just told him thanks..he said it's like guys tell you you are beautiful alot and I told him no not guys, I just tell my self everyday am beautiful that's why it doesnt really sway me when a guy says it...( I am a plus size lady and at a point I had low self esteem and low confidence..(story for another day let me continue).

To cut the long story short...the sexual attraction between us was just too much and I was so wet after he Ieft...30 minutes after they left I got a text from him saying "I cant stop thinking about you" nd I replied "its allowed" I got another one after a while "I swear you really are beautiful" and I replied thanks.

Infact joro I am not saying the scenario well...everything was just...I havent felt this kind of sexual attraction with a guy before.
I just want to know if it's one sided and I shouldn't encourage friendship with him or just be friends with him and nothing more (I know anything can happen relationship wise) a point i just wanted to have sex but i just had to behave like he wasnt affecting me...

I usually keep a distance from guys cause I decided not to sleep with any guy till I know his the one or something....tired of guys just sleeping with me and behaving like traffic light

I slept with my husband’s brother, still cannot forgive myself

I am 23 years old and married to an amazing man.

Sometime in 2015, I did a very terrible thing which has made me depressed until this very moment.

I cheated on my husband with his brother and I know I was very wrong to have done that as I still cannot forgive myself.

It’s been one year since it happened, yet, I still can’t sleep or eat peacefully and I keep having this fretful attack, day and night.

I have been crying and praying to God for forgiveness because I am depressed.

I love my husband so much and I couldn’t bear to hurt him, I still cannot explain why I cheated on him with his own brother.

I know what I did was not worth it and it made no sense.

At the mere thought of it, I feel like dying.

I do not want sympathy over this and please, don’t castigate me any further.

Can somebody help me please? My past is hunting me right in my face. My world is crumbling.

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I met a married man at wedding today. I was wet in church. besides My friends will reach there before me if I don't

Dear Joro, why am I excited ? I met a married man at a wedding today. We chatted and spoke for hours.joro For some reason I was wet in church. God forgive me. He just seem perfect and all. My friends were even cutting eye for him.

Now we're at the reception Joro and I saw his wife. He pulls chair for her, he gets her food, he cleans food on her lips. I even started liking him more. Joro But he has not even look at me for a second.

I have been boning face so guys won't come and talk to me so he won't be upset.Joro Is this feeling going to stop after today? Started getting wet again Joro.

I feel bad I'm doing this to another woman. But denying my feeling will do more damage. Beside my friends will first me to reach him if I don't.

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My bobo doesn't want to have sex with me again.

Hi joro, Please I have an issue with my bobo. He normally likes to seduce me and tease me before we have sex and I like it, but nowadays he hasn't been doing so.

Now sef we don't even have sex as often. Anytime I meet him he will either say I'm tired or he isn't in the mood. And he has been staying out late and is always up late chatting with someone on the phone and I'm scared Joro.

I hope he hasn't found a new girl. I know my boyfriend won't cheat on me but I'm having second thoughts honestly. Should I confront him or should I just let all this slide? Maybe it's a phase?

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The Curse of Being a Beautiful Woman is Upon Me

I didn’t set out to be beautiful. I did nothing to have the face I own and I did nothing to deserve the body that I have. I was born with it. I didn’t even know my face was beautiful or my body had something appealing to the beholders. I only woke up and existed just like any human being until I started hearing “You are beautiful” very often from people close by.

I was very young. I didn’t even know what it means to be beautiful so I would look into the mirror and look at everything I had and in the end say; “But there’s nothing I have that others don’t have?”

In senior high school, a teacher found me. He even proposed to me but I declined. I told him I was young and it wouldn’t be proper to date my teacher. He did things for me and I suspected he dashed me marks. I never had lower marks in his subject.

In my third year, he tried to forcefully have sex with me. He didn’t believe I was a virgin and he didn’t believe when I said I had no boyfriend. The only thing that saved me that day were the sports guys who came to his house to pick their sports equipment for training. That was very close so I learned not to get close to him.

The real ordeal of my life started at the university. By this time I knew the attention my presence drew so I tried to hide in big clothes. I never own a cloth that clung to my body. They were all loose and sometimes too long for comfort. I got closer to a guy who later became my boyfriend. He advised me to loosen up a little bit because no one was after me. I listened to him. I believed if people knew I had a boyfriend, they would leave me alone.

I was wrong.

A lecturer gave me his number to call him after class. When I called, he was blunt with me; “You are a beautiful girl and I want you to be my girlfriend. I haven’t ever asked a student out before but you are different so I have to act differently.” I responded; “I’m grateful you think I’m beautiful but I have a boyfriend and as such wouldn’t be right to date you.” He insisted and I kept declining. That semester, I failed his subject. I wrote again and I failed. He called one day to tell me; “You don’t have to go through all this. Just say yes and you wouldn’t have to write the paper again.”

I told him; “I have your voice on tape now. I’m going to write the paper again. If I fail, I’ll have no option than take you on.” I wrote the paper again and I passed. The only person I shared this story with was my boyfriend. He understood and was there for me. A year later, he left me. His reason was; “It’s very uncomfortable the way people look at you even when I’m with you. I know very soon they’ll snatch you from me.” I didn’t do anything wrong to him. He left just like that. Some women are able to keep their men with their beauty but mine only drove away the only person I’d ever loved and given my all to.

When school was over, I decided to use all my energy to find a job and dedicate everything to it. Luckily for me, I found a job where I did my service. It wasn’t offered to me on a silver platter, I had to do a lot of unpaid hours to be considered for that position.  I worked so hard to be promoted the following year but people didn’t recognize the hard work. Instead, they said, “She’s giving her body to directors for promotion.” That didn’t stop me and I gave people no ears.

I had an opportunity to travel with my boss on a business trip to South Africa. It was supposed to be a one week trip. When we got to South Africa, I realized he booked only one hotel room for both of us. At first, I thought it was a joke but he insisted that was the only room available and he didn’t want us to sleep in different hotels so he booked it for both of us until a room becomes vacant then I moved in. I was triggered. It didn’t sound true but my boss had never given any indication that he wanted me.

I grudgingly obliged. That night became the longest night of my life. He gave me the bed and decided to sleep on the couch. At dawn, I felt something running on my skin. I was awaked but didn’t make any move. He kept moving from my back and then touched my bum. He did that for a long time but I pretended I was sleeping. I was threatened but didn’t want to wake up. I was only hoping he wouldn’t try to go any further but some minutes later he tried opening my legs. That was when I suddenly got up.

He looked into my face. I looked into his face. I asked him, “Is that the reason you booked a single room for u…” before I could complete my statement, he pounced on me and started trying to have his way with me. I struggled with him. He was bigger but I tried with all my might to fight him off. He tore off my shorts and was holding on to my pant while he lied on top of me. At that moment I got frozen. He seemed to get stronger at every minute while I got weaker at every passing second.

He succeeded in tearing off my pant. I tried to scream but he used his knee to lock my left hand while he used his free hand to fold my torn shorts and pushed it into my mouth. At that moment, I could only break down and cry as I watched him have his way with me. I didn’t even realize when he finished. I was so paralyzed I couldn’t even lift my body after he had gotten off me.

Later, I heard the shower running and minutes later, he returned in the couch and slept away. It was the longest night of my life as I laid there buried in sweat with pains all over my body. I was totally broken but tears kept coming and coming.

The next morning, he came to me looking all remorseful and started apologizing. The only thing I said was, “Can I go back to Ghana now?” He said, “But we came only yesterday?” Later that day, he got me another room in the hotel. I locked myself up and cried and cried. At some point, I thought of stabbing him with a knife. I thought of poisoning him too. For the next five days, I never stepped out and I never attended any of the meetings.

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On the plane coming back to Ghana, he placed a cheque on my lap. I looked at it. GHC35,000. I picked it up, tore it into two and put it into my purse. I told him; “Pray we both die on this plane because when we reach Ghana alive and well, it would be the end of you.”

He served two years out of the seven-year jail term last month. Five more years to go. Though I resigned from the company, they gave me a very huge compensation. Nothing has changed. I still go around bearing the curse of beauty. Men don’t trust I’m single so they don’t approach. Those who approach me don’t want commitment because, in their mind, I’m too hot to be marriage material. But I’m content. I have work and I have life. All the rest will fall in place at the right time.