I have been married for 3 years. I him dated him for 2 years prior. So 5 years altogether.
Segun (husband) & I have a son and we love him to bits. He is the centre of our world.
We are comfortable as a family, cute middle-class family. Segun is an alpha male, good looking. The type that walks into a room and all the girls compete for his attention.
He is 39 and has not changed physically. On a good day, I would want to fv.ck him even if he wasn’t my husband.
We have a boring $3x life; his libido is much lower than mine. I find myself initiating s*$ most of the time because he is too tired and would rather just sleep. After a while of this, I began to feel that maybe I just wasn’t $3xua1ly attractive anymore. He was always a bit reserved when it came to $3x but was even more reserved after we got married. I should have seen that as a warning sign. Which guy ever has low $3x drive? Not to mention a hot $3xy one.
He didn’t like bl@wj0bs, he felt it was dirty. I miss and crave giving head and try all the time with him pulling me away and stopping me.
I can count on one hand how many times I have given him head. Our $3xual positions never changed. It was missionary position as he was never open to trying new things. I remember the look in his eyes when I told him I had bought a vibrator, anxiety.
My husband is a lion in the open and a lamb in the bedroom. I had never thought about cheating on my husband and had just accepted him for who he is. It was quite frustrating as I had started m@$turbating a lot.
There was a lot of tension growing between us because of this, I was always snapping at him because I was $3xually unfilled.
One day, things turned around in the most unlikely way. Our son had started school so I drop him off in the mornings. On this particular day, a dad of one of the other kids in my son’s class said hi and introduced himself as Tunde. While I waited for my driver to turn the car around, this guy starts chatting with me. To my surprise, I became very shy as this was not something that had happened to me in a very long time. I was really just thinking about getting to work and still didn’t understand why he was delaying me with all this talk. Then it finally became clear that he was hitting on me. I waved my ring to let him know I was married and unavailable but he didn’t break in stride and said “Nice wedding band”
I immediately felt flattered and said “So you know I am married” to reiterate and Tunde responded “if you don’t mind me not minding that you’re married here is my card. I thought about him for the rest of the day, he was tall and well built. Witty and a great smile, a lot of confidence. I couldn’t stop thinking about him and how he approached me.
I called him the next day, we had lunch and I learned he was also married. We traded stories and ended up getting along very well. He was very flirty and that was a turn on for me. We talked about everything, I learnt he was quite frustrated at home. His wife did not enjoy $3x.
We met again after work the next day to have drinks, it was so much fun. He kissed me on the lips when he said good night and it left my head spinning.
We didn’t chat much during the weekend but on Monday we were on Whatsapp all through. I practically didn’t do any work that day, in the evening he asked me to drop by at his office. The office was practically empty when I got there. As soon as I stepped into his private office and he shut the door, we started making out like two teenagers. He lifted me up and I wrapped my legs around him. He took me to his desk, laid me down and went right down on me without even thinking twice about it. Tunde knew how to please and wanted to be pleased. I loved the feeling of his c0ck in my mouth and hearing his moan.
We now meet once a week and we do everything under the sun, he is very open $3xually and that’s a huge turn on for me. Tunde’s $3xual desires and kinky needs exceed my own. He is exactly what I need, a fearless, confident alpha male who makes me feel like I am a woman.
I feel guilty doing this at times but I also feel we all get what we want. My husband gets a happier wife; Tunde’s wife gets a happier husband. Tunde and I get exactly what we need from each other. In the end we are all getting what we need. Don’t think I should feel bad about that.
I am Brenda and I am an unfaithful wife