Na wa oh!! Why have you not been answering our messages? You do not realize that for some of us, it is a real life or death situation. ok, I agree that it is not life and death like that but there are interesting perspectives we get from reading your “2 cents” and so much more from the comments and free advice. Please kindly answer my own oh as I am in serious gbege.
I finished NYSC with the last batch and I have been hanging out at my sister’s house while waiting for a job. I am also helping her out with her kids. My Problem started a while back when my Brother-in-law started pestering me for sex. Initially, I thought he was joking as it was like play play. Now, it has become serious matter. If I find myself alone with him while my sister is elsewhere in the house, he would bring up the matter. He has pestered my phone to no end. I am even scared that my sister would find out.
I have taken to dodging him by staying in my room except when my sister really needs me. My sister has been complaining that I have recently become withdrawn, unfriendly and always hiding in my room but wetin I go do?
The other day, his matter ended gear 5 when he suddenly came home when my sister was away at work and insisted that I should have sex with him. What saved the matter was the sudden arrival of the maid. I don not know what I would have done that day.
I really don’t know what to do at this stage. Should I tell my sister? If I do, I am concerned about the effect on their marriage. I don’t want to bear the tag of being a marriage breaker, also, my sister might not believe me. If I stay, I am sure to get raped one day or find myself in a relationship with him. If I leave the house, my sister might suspect something, might think I am ungrateful or something else. It is also not as if I have so many options as regards where I can stay. I can’t tell my parents; my parents respect him so much that I can’t even speak about it to any of them. Any which way I turn, it is pure
Any which way I turn, it is pure gobe. What do I do, I am truly going out of my mind; I need help.