Mercy and her husband, Sam, are having issues because of his insistence that they must have oral and an*l sx.
My name is Mercy, a 31-year-old married woman with three children. I am a born again Christian and I have been married for 10 years now.
Before I became born again, I have not had s3xual issues with my husband Samuel because our s3x life has always been okay.
But in recent times, he has been trying out some perverted sxual fantasies that run against my beliefs and standing as a Christian woman.
I always believed that sx between a husband and his wife should be for both procreation and enjoyment but Sam wants us to indulge in so many warped sxual reveries that one only sees in p@rno@raphic movies.
The first day Sam suggested I should give him a bl@w job while having s3x, I was taken aback because we had never done that before neither have we tried out such things.
We had indulged in some sx positions apart from the missionary style in the past but the idea of oral sx has always been repulsive to me.
To make him happy, I had to give him a bl@wjob but since that day, he made it a part of our sxual routine even when our pastor preached that it was wrong to indulge in it.
But as an obedient wife, I did it to please him but he some time ago, he suggested we have anal sx. I was so shocked that I almost jumped out of the bed. The idea of my husband having sex with me through the anus was so weird I almost screamed at him.
Since that day, my husband has been mad at me, saying all his friends have anal sx with their wives and he sees no reason why we should not. I have tried to make him realize that it is not what others do that we should practice but he does not want to understand.