Another one from the stable of Joro Nation
Good afternoon, please post and keep me anonymous. I need help, how can I get over this? I know a lot of people would say time heals and I usually get over things like this ASAP but this is different.
I will try to make my story brief and criticisms are welcome; I know I made a mistake. There is a lot to it but I will try to be brief. I started seeing this man last year march. I wouldn’t categorize him a sugar daddy but he was much older (50s), I am 24 next month.
His family is abroad and of course very wealthy and influential. Dating him at first gave me a lot of exposure, connects, favour, money, gifts and romance. He was a good listener and he tells me everything. The sex was amazing, this man’s d!ck is chai.. baba knows how to get it right even at his age which is very surprising.
Where did we not have sex? He couldn’t do without talking or wanting me around. I did learn quite a lot and enjoyed being with him. After like six months into the relationship, I decided to go abroad for a month’s course.
I noticed he started withdrawing, someone who used to give 150k starts giving me 20k etc. stopped calling every day, stopped replying as much as he used to. When I got back we sorted it out but he still didn’t stop to give me peanuts. His excuse was that I wasn’t using money for important things like starting a business or learning a skill.
I didn’t feel it was his concern how I spent my money. He didn’t change. The money dropped from 20k to 10k each time we met, I was starting to feel embarrassed each time he handed me the money. I felt valueless, he stopped caring basically but mhen.. the sex.. it didn’t stop me from moving on.
I realized I was beginning to fall in love with him, hoping he would change, started restrategizing, stopped collecting money from him after we had sex (this didn’t work), took up a skill etc .. anything that would work and make him stay.
There were days I felt it wasn’t really worth it and tried to really move on but I would find myself back in his bed. I know I fucked up.
Few days to his birthday I decided to move on for good when he told me about another lady, from their chat it was obvious he was chasing her. The lady is a very big madam in one of these big multinationals.. Definitely not a competition lol. I do regret allowing myself into someone who is married.
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