Guys why are you heartless?

Guys why are you heartless?
I've been dating this guy for almost 2 years, he had the honour of taking my virginity, I've been loyal like crazy.

I  never kissed or fc..ked anyone else since I started dating him but he on the other hand, places his cap on different ladies pu5sies and still comes to have s..x with me without protection(stupid of me I know, but my V reacts to c0ndoms, and i take total care of my V).

He has s..x, kisses, flirts with numerous girls and gives them high hopes, invites every fc..king Instagram girl to come over to his house. He even invited a girl to join him for a friend's wedding in owerri(paid her tfare and all to come all the way) but told me not to stress myself when I wanted to join him.

We looking at getting married, I love him and I know he loves me but he's being wicked, with this flirting life. Cause I don't see what I've done to love or deserve someone that lies with eyes open and flirts like a grade 1 Casanova.
. I'm really sad? Why are guys like this? What can i do? He's a check in all other things and I'm aware that this red flag can be worked on.

Sins Of The Parents

He was the first person I spoke to on my first day at school.  It was early morning and none of the teaching staff had reported. He was the only one in the staff common room. I said, “Good morning” and he asked, “Who are you?” I thought he didn’t hear my greeting so I repeated. He responded and then went ahead to ask his questions…

“Who are you?”

“My name is Belinda. The new English teacher.”

“Belinda? English teacher?

“Yeah. It’s my first day here.”

We went on to have a very long conversation before other staff members joined us. He didn’t tell me his name. I gathered later from other teachers that his name was Ebo.

He became my go-to person and we later grew to become inseparable friends. We were so close some teachers started thinking we had a thing going on. We didn’t but deep inside of me I wished we did. I was growing fond of him every day. He was intelligent, tall (like I wanted in my man), and very considerate. The only thing that was going against us was the age difference. He was twenty-seven and I was thirty-two. I couldn’t see myself in a meaningful relationship with him or I didn’t believe he would love to be in a meaningful relationship with someone older than himself.

He visited one weekend like he usually did and that day the conversation went on a different tangent. We spoke about love, marriage, and childbirth. I realized we had so many things in common when it came to these topics. I grew fonder of him and that day I wished he could see through me and know my feelings. Maybe he did and decided to ignore it.

After he had left, I saw a blue envelope on my chair. Those envelopes they usually use for greeting cards. I turned it and saw my name boldly written on it. I looked up and smiled, “This guy has a weird way of doing things,” I said to myself. “Why would he write it in a card instead of telling it to my face?” I started guessing what was written on the card; “Could you be my girlfriend” or “I love you so much I want to spend the rest of my life with you.” I opened it and it was a wedding invitation.

I couldn’t believe my eyes. I turned the card in all positions just to be sure what I was seeing was actually meant to be what I was seeing: “Ben Weds Nora.” I couldn’t say much. I sent him a message; “Congratulations on what you left on my table.”

I was at the wedding. I took pictures with him and smiled a lot but deep on the inside, I was hurting. I was even jealous of his wife. How could she have something that’ I’ve always wanted?

After the wedding, he sought transfer from the school so he could go and live with his wife. We didn’t stop talking. I had so much harbored in my heart that when one day he asked me how I was, I let it all out; “Ben I wanted you. Didn’t you see it? Didn’t you see the recklessness in my demeanor anytime I was with you? I thought there was something for us and I waited for you to make a move.”

He said he was sorry. He said he was into me too. He also said his heart was already committed to someone else and didn’t know how to handle his feelings for me especially when he and his girl were getting ready to marry. I cried a little but I wished him well.

The next day, I responded to a knock on my door and—guess what—Ebo was standing right in front of my door. I was so surprised I didn’t know how to act it. I hugged him and pulled him in. That was it. The next thing I saw was us lying naked in bed next to each other and panting like we just came out of the water. It became a ritual. Every weekend, he would travel to my place and spend some time together.

I was confused. Yes, I was having an affair with a married man but getting pregnant for him wasn’t part of the plan. I was scared of what my parents were going to say. I thought of all the wrong things people were going to say about me. I didn’t know what to do. I spoke to a friend I trusted and she said; “If you tell him about it, he would convince you to abort it. If you want to keep it, then hide it from him. Tell him only when it’s too late and abortion can’t be done.”

I told a doctor friend of mine and he invited me over to have a scan. After the scan, he asked me, “But why do you want to abort it?” I told him the situation and he asked again, “Do you like kids?” I responded, “Of course I do. I’ve always thought of having a lot of them.” He said, “If you love kids, then this is a kid you can also love. It is not going to be different from any other kid. He would be a human regardless of the story around his birth. If you are scared of what the father would say, then don’t tell him. You are thirty-four. You have a job. You can take care of a kid.”

I didn’t like the idea of not telling Ebo about the pregnancy. I knew he would know eventually so I picked up the phone and told him; “Ebo, I don’t know what to do now. If you ask me to abort it today, I would. This wasn’t part of the plan for both of us and I know it places us both in a very difficult situation…What do you suggest we do?” He said, “Keep it. Why would you even think of aborting it?”

“How about your wife? What if she gets to know of it?”

“How is she going to know? Are you going to inform her?”

“Nooo not at all but what if she gets to know through some other means?”

“She won’t know. This is our secret. If someday she gets to know, that’s fine but I’m not going to be the one to tell her.”

I gave birth to a boy. That morning, he sent me a text with a list of names I should choose from. He said, “Pick one and give to the baby. I selected one and he said, “So be it. That’s his name.”

My boy is five years now and he’s somehow bringing out the secret we are keeping from everyone—he looks just like a twin to his father. If you know his father, immediately you see my boy you’ll say, “This boy looks like Ebo’s son.”

The teachers in my school have said that a million times but somehow they don’t believe that could be the case so they go like, “You’ve played with Ebo saaa have you seen that you’ve had a child that looks like him?”

But my friend in the school isn’t stupid. She cornered me one day and said, “Belinda, Ebo is your boy’s father and I know it. I suspected it but now I’m convinced that is the truth. Why don’t you say the truth?” “Say the truth to who?” I asked. “Who needs to hear the truth? If you know it, then others too know it. Everyone is not stupid.”


After this conversation, I wrote to the office to seek a transfer. Ebo still has some family members around here. Very soon, the news might spread for all of them to know. Even if no one spreads the news, the face of my son is enough to carry the news around. If I leave town, I leave with everything and all of my secrets.

The father tries his best to be responsible. He pays his fees and sends money every now and then but it’s hard for me knowing what I’m trying to hide. People display their kids on their status and on social media. They share their birthday photos and outings with them. I would love to do the same with my son but I can’t. I’m really proud of the boy. He’s smart and very outgoing but I can’t show him to the world. I hid him and it breaks my heart all the time.

Can one not be proud of what she had done and yet be proud of the results that came out of what she did? I worry too much about what’s yet to come. My child is innocent but the story around him is not an innocent one. How long can this stay hidden and what is the cost of hiding the truth from everyone?

He and his wife have a daughter now and I see what he does with her daughter. From the day she was born till today that she’s three years old, there has been no single day that he hasn’t posted a photo of her somewhere.

But mine stays hidden. He can’t even bear his own father’s surname because…because we are supposed to be hiding.

That hurts!

—Belinda, Ghana

She is a runs girls, She has a High body count.. she doesn't deserve him

She doesn't deserve him
She is a runs girls She has a High body count.. she doesn't deserve him

Gd evening. Hi, Hope ur doing gd. Joro sometimes last year my good friend who is male asked for a friend he can just have fun with for a weekend Just evening s3x pleasure no relationships .

I gave him this my friend. She is loose. She has a high body count. She likes men. She is a runs girl but her runs no pay her. Joro for me to get a call from my friend that he is dating her like a girlfriend that he likes her and all. He doesn't really know much 2/2 about her past.

I want to tell him about her past. If he knows how many abortions she has done and how many men she has slept with he won't want to marry her. I am in shock. He already said he wants to take her to his mom. Abort abort abort mission. Omg. Like omg he can't marry her He can't marry her.

Omg He deserves someone better This is a girl whose period was missing for 2 months. Pastors and Alfa has to pray for her to bring it back. She should find her husband somewhere else. I really like my friend he is a good guy and has a good heart She will only ruin his life

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Is this the normal technique guys use to test?

If you smell down there don't expect a guy to give you head. Moreover how you expect some random guy that is not your boyfriend to give you head.. Some ladies though..


I feel a lot offended So on Saturday night now I was making out with this guy Next thing he did he finger me and then style like he was scratching his nose then he smell the finger.

He was trying to see if am smiling Is this a normal technique guys use to test if girls are smelling ? I feel somehow Because he didn't give me head.

He stopped there and then

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My uk based boyfriend likes and wants an..l from me I'm scared

This lady doesn't want to be analised! please help her out!
More shoes to your wardrobe sir! I'm so worried my boyfriend based in uk wants anal. I know he dated a lot of white ladies and now he is ready to settle down.

He wants marriage as soon as he return in February and tells me how much he likes anal despite my tight pussy. He is coming back with anal oil to disvirgin me.

I'm losing my mind. How do I make him stop He spends a lot on me but I don't want to be analised.
Last time we met, he sucked my anal hole so nicely I came twice but I didn't have this anal penetration in mind.

He told me he was only saving my anal for my engagement night, . Joro please help! Should I be excited or worried. I've been watching anal p0.rn lately and I'm not finding any funny.
Please hide my identity.

He has spent much on you but you don't want to be ANALISED!! You must be ANALISED 000 so better keep that ANUS in good shape Warris dat?

A user with the handle @emperialnneka wrote:  Hello Ma'am, if you don't want to be `analised'(whatever the hell that means) tell him biko. It's not by force. I understand compromise but not to the detriment of my anal. There are so many exciting sex routines that I feel I can try out but you see anal? It's never one of them.

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Joro I finally came during penetrative s..x

LOL  "joroolumofin wrote: Found this in my mail. My S3x Doctor Ministry is Growing... Happy for you Poster"

Hi Joro. Thank you. Good morning. I want to thank you for the sexual tips you gave me in April. You posted a book on s,x and I sent you a Snapchat and we chatted.

You gave me this heavenly tips. I recommended it to my boyfriend and he does it now. Thank you Joro. You can share on your page so ladies can be happy.

So my boyfriend penetrates me from the back after much fourplay and am wet, he will now put his hand on my cl!tor!s.

So the steps: 1- He's penetrating me from the back 2- He is Licking my ear and neck while in me 3-He is using this hand at the same time to stimulate my cl!tor!s while penetrating me.

Henceforth am been simultaneously satisfied with 3 senses. I have come 3 times now. 29 years of my life I have never come through s,x. Joro thank you for this. God Bless you.

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