Thanks very much for your column. You don’t realize the good job you are doing. There are some things that are best asked in anonymity. Please try and find time to answer my matter.
I am a very comfortable young woman in her late twenties with a very good job. I no go lie, I like $3x. I like to do. I hear that it is abnormal for a woman but that is the way it is for me.
From the time I have known my body, I have come to love it. I am very curvy and well shaped. Before I discovered boys, I learnt to masturbate and I would masturbate regularly. I didn’t have $3x with a man till I was 17 by which time I was in university but since then, I have always had a boyfriend.
I have had $3x with several men. Some times, I have kept 2 boyfriends. I don’t consider myself promiscuous. Once in a while, I find a good guy who just wants a fling. We date for a while and then the relationship fizzles out as it is purely sexual. I never reallyconsideredd myself to be a nymphomaniac
So this is my problem. I have been dating this married guy for the past two years but I also have a guy whom I would be marrying in about six months. I am not in any financial relationship with the married guy, we are just “friends with benefits” if you understand what I mean. The guy is very good in bed and really knows how to please a woman. He is someone I would easily have settled with if he wasn’t married. He was the first guy to make me realize I could climax in $3x. The only other time, I could achieve this was by myself.
Now as to my fiancée, he is a really lovely guy and I love him very much. We have been together for long. In fact, he is the one who dis-virgined me. We have been in an off and on relationship for more than ten years and really got serious the last 5 years. He isn’t aware of my side guys as I have managed to be discreet. Also, he travels a lot giving me time. He doesn’t really satisfy me s$3ually. Sometimes it is good, most times, it is just there and I would need to do stuff to finish myself.
I really intend to be faithful and not do something on the side after marriage but seriously, it is a terrifying prospect with my guy. Sometimes, the guy would say he has a headache, create all kinds of an excuse not to have $3x. More than once, he has used style to run away. It is always as if I am always pestering him for $3x.
What do you think I should do? I believe that $3x should be an integral part of any relationship. I once tried staying away from my married friend to concentrate on my BF but it didn’t work. I was practically $3x starved. Is something wrong with me? Someone once me a nymphomaniac and mentioned that I have a high libido is because I wasn’t circumcised. Can this be true?
Thanks in advance for your help.
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