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I did arrangee marriage for citizenship, now HE wants ‘more’

Lady in arrangee marriage dilema
Thanks so much for your column and your advice. It’s really refreshing to read your 2 cents on the various matters you address.
Hmmmmmmm I don’t know how I am going to say this but I really need advice.
My fiancee and I had been engaged here for a while, waiting for enough money to marry and settle. Some time last year, my friends introduced me to this guy (let’s call him Dayo). Dayo is a British citizen and he charged us some money for an arranged marriage between the two of us.
My fiancee and I put the money together and paid him for this arrangee marriage. The agreement was that after I got my papers, we’ll divorce so I could re-marry and bring my fiance to the UK.
Everything went on well and I have been in the UK for almost 6 months. In the beginning, everything was fine. I would only spend some time with Dayo to have some appearance of marriage but most times I would spend time with my friends. I got a nice job and things were going well.
Recently, Dayo started to threaten that he wants full marriage rights. He  wants to sleep with me and all. He threatened that I must not tell anyone or he would report and I would be deported.

I’m torn between two men, How do I choose?

I have tried everything to persuade him but he has increased his pressure. I am now at a cross road as to what to do. He says no one would know and it would be just between him and I.
It took so much to raise the money he asked for ( £12000). We had to sell my car, our life savings and all. It would be tough coming back to Nigeria.
He has given me an ultimatum to do this or he would go tell the authorities. Who do I tell? I am afraid to talk to my fiancee or my friends. They might call him and get him angry.


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