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I need more reasons to why my 3yrs relationship ended so badly

We lived together in the same hostel for a good three years. Our happy ways kept us tight and wanting more of each other every day. It was both our first time in a relationship, Maybe that’s why we never got tired of seeing each other every day.

Almost everyone in school knew us both as a couple because we were always together. Some even called us twins; That made her so very afraid of losing me. She wept sometimes and when I asked why, she kept saying I must marry her eventually as she can’t let another man replace me, That if I ever left her, she preferred to stay single for the rest of her time on earth.

Her saying shook me always as I never doubted her love & sacrifice leaving me all alone today. To tell how intimate we were. My friends & even landlord used to say I should never leave her as she’s a true lover But everything started going wrong last year October.

We were on holidays so we both left campus & agreed to spend time with our family at home. Her parents knew me right from the beginning as her date, But my parents are the strict type. They never heard about my relationship with her. Only my brothers & sisters at home. We planned to talk about us with them after school, But faith decided otherwise.

While at home last October, She called & joked about a man who came that day to propose her in front of her family
I felt nothing as I know she wouldn’t betray me. We said nothing about it until we resumed back to campus.

On arrival, she hugged me so tight & immediately showed me all the presents that the man brought for her. I told her to keep it and I said I trusted her. We had sex and other domestic chores that kept us occupied.

It was November and after our first, second sex during resumption that she started feeling awkward in bed, saying she’s weak or that her lower abdomen was hurting when having sex so I gave her time.

November ending, her period came in. She usually suffers from cramps since I knew her and Sometimes she would cry.
But this time, it was terrible as she cried so much that I had to let her go back home. After few days at home, she came back with traditional medicine saying that it was the first time in life to feel no pain since she started having her period and I was so happy.

From then, however, she stopped initiating sex. If I tried to romance her, she would push me away saying she needed time for her body, that sex was the last thing on her menu. I became quite afraid but she said that nothing was wrong with her, I just needed to understand. November and December passed on and she remained the same

In January, she started picking calls outside. Things she never did before. When I spoke to her about it and wanted to check her phone, she cried and hated me for not trusting her. January – February, she started travelling home and coming back at least twice a week. Whenever she came back, she cried about her family situation and how they were doing badly financially. It touched me and I tried consoling her as much as she allowed me to.

March ending, we finished our final exams and she decided that she needed to stay close to her family. We both wept as our conclusion was to pack completely and wait no longer because of her present situation at home. I asked if there was anything she hasn’t told me but She swore that there was nothing she was hiding away from me.

We parted ways on March 22nd and from that very day, she cut off all contacts with me. Even her parents lined have been unreachable till date. she also Blocked me on facebook. I was totally dead inside, not knowing what had happened and why as she left me no reasons for her action.
My worst moment came in last Sunday after a friend showed me her wedding party with that same man that had proposed to her last October. In total confusion and tears rolling down, I said to my self, that this wasn’t her. I also wondered if it could be an arranged marriage that she never wanted to talk to me about But she was smiling deeply in all the pictures she appeared in during the party.

I did a little research on Facebook and saw that she had opened a new account. On viewing it, I saw that she had already gotten engaged that very day the man came (October Last Year); They were just waiting for her to finish school “But why this!!”
Credits: davinadiaries


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