I met a girl 2years ago, she was still a student and resided in a state different from that in which I reside.
I proposed to her in between the two years and she agreed. I approached her parents to marry her but they refused and asked me to wait till she rounds up her education and I agreed.
In June last year, she had an accident that caused her to be hospitalised for close to 2 months. throughout the period, I wasn’t able to get time off work to visit her, but I did send money to cover the bills. naturally, she wasn’t pleased that I couldn’t come.
She was discharged by August and went back to school, she told me she was asked to come for weekly checkups but that the doctor who was a divorcee had told her not to bother and had instead, offered to come check on her regularly as he consulted close to where she lived and She agreed.
last week she told me that she had a confession to make to me which was that she had cheated on me with the doctor. she first told me that the doctor had taken advantage on her in her room and that it happened just once. I didn’t quite believe her and so I interrogated her further. I asked her to swear that it was just once and she got scared and told me that it was not once but on three occasions that they had had sex.
I still wasn’t satisfied as I observed she was hiding something, so I went further and asked her to swear a deadly oath. Then she confessed another version of the story stating that the first time was in a hotel. That the doctor had invited her for a drink and it became late for her to go back especially as it was also raining that night. Later on, the doctor asked her to follow him to his room so he could give her some money to get a cab. On reaching his room, she changed her mind to go because it was late and she said the doctor then made advances and put her on the bed shifted her panties and they had sex. That she didn’t expect it.
Then I asked her where the other 2 incidents occurred and she said it was in the doctor’s house.
I asked her what had made their relationship to end and she told me the doctor asked her why it was that she always resisted his sexual advances and only opened up after he had pressurised her. He asked her what else could she offer him if not sex, that can she pay his dues? She said that was when her eyes opened and she got angry and she said that was when she left him.
She opened up to me and said she was sorry and that it won’t happen again and she swore by herself.
I never could believe in my wildest imagination that someone else could ever have sex with her, because of the things she always says to me as to how much she loves me. I am still in shock. I told her I have forgiven her but the thought and memory of it still hurts me. I am supposed to revisit her parents by December because I have plans on marrying her by Easter next year