So, I've got a cousin whose wife aborted a child without the Hubby's knowledge a few years back and the hubby found out months after she lost another son same day she delivered. Her excuse(s) were:
1. That she underwent an x-ray and unbeknownst to her, she was already pregnant and she only saw the warning on the x-ray card that stated that the child may have birth defects.
2. That she and her husband were feuding during that period and she couldn't tell him (or his sister of mother who were by the way her strong allies then).
She then arbitrarily went for the abortion with her landlady and her cousin was the only person she told.