Dear Joro. Hope you're enjoying ur holiday? I never thought I will be sending my Dear Joro one day. But my mum is messing up my life and I can't take it anymore.
I grew up in a single parent household with just a mum. I've never met my dad and I don't even know if I will ever because we don't know his whereabouts.
My mum always has several men over. In a nutshell my mum is promiscuous and it's something I've had to just accept and live with because I can't throw my mum away. I managed to grow up without taking my mums behaviour.
Now I met this guy in May 2018 and we got really serious and even talking marriage. We decided to have a mini introduction where my family can meet his family before we move further. This meeting happened in February after valentines.
I noticed that after the meeting my boyfriend started being distant. He stopped calling me . I was always the one to call or text. I kept asking what was wrong but he wouldn't say. He just kept saying he's been occupied with work and all.
Yesterday I got a text from him saying he couldn't go on with our relationship and he was sorry it's not my fault . He said his family said he can never marry me because my mum had messed around with one of his uncles. Me knowing my mum I knew it was 100 percent possible. I told my mum this, she didn't deny it. She just said the guy should go , I will find someone else.
She wasn't even remorseful. I'm really hurt, I don't even know what to do. I'm thinking of begging this guy . Maybe go to his family house and let them know I'm not my mother. Even if I find someone else my mums actions might still continue to hunt me. I really need advice. What should I do. I'm really considering cutting all ties with my mum.
She is pregnant.. my sperm is strong...But she get big forehead like Riri