How are you doing today? So I and my besty were discussing about our weddings and the issue of maid of honour came up. My besty started with " I don't even know who will be my chief bride's maid".
This was my reaction "mogbe". According to her, she can't use me because I am too taller and bigger than her, (Chai d tin enter) and that it's her day so she needs to shine.
I swear I have never thought of anyone as my chief bridesmaid other than her. I mean, i am biggy biggy for where she dey but that wouldn't stop me from using my ride or die on my big day.
I ready to even lose weight and wear sandal join for her own day . In the past b4 we became besties, she also made a comment about who she wanted for her train and it alluded that she didn't want me because of similar reasons but we settled sha.
Although, I want her to be my maid of honor regardless cus I want my besty to be beside me on that day (life's too short, i want to make happy memories) but I am rethinking that . Please, I want people's opinion on this. Am I overreacting?
I know she loves me dearly so that's not even an issue. It's all love tho, I will still be happy to dance and hail her from back on her big day... And, ohh!! We are both not engaged A, we're just proactive .